LGBTQ+ Community Group

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Community conversations for and by LGBTQ+ Arlingtonians

“Sometimes you are the only person who can do something at a certain time. It’s the old question, ‘If not I, who?’”

Dr. Lilli Vincenz (1937-2023), local LGBTQ+ activist and pioneer

In late 2024, Arlington Community Foundation convened a group of local LGBTQ+ folks and allies to listen and learn about the topics, needs, and opportunities on the minds of our local LGBTQ+ community. We heard that folks were interested in coming together more often to be in community and learn more about a variety of issues and how they intersect with the local LGBTQ+ community.

We are excited to launch a series of important community conversations guided by this feedback, the first of which being a panel discussion on LGBTQ+ mental health. The LGBTQ+ Community Group is still developing and growing (we still need an official name!), and we are eager for your participation and feedback.

If you would like to attend future community conversations or to provide input on future conversation topics, please contact Jamee Hood at jhood@arlcf.org or by clicking the button below.

photos from the lgbtq roundtable

Photos: LGBTQ+ roundtable discussions, reception, and notes from the late 2024 event

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May 21, 2025 | 6-7:30 PM | Arlington Central Library
LGBTQ+ Mental Health Panel
Mental health professionals and representatives from LGBTQ+ nonprofits discuss the unique challenges LGBTQ+ folks face with mental health and barriers to mental health care, as well as resources and strategies for improving your mental health as an LGBTQ+ person.
The Panelists
Hans
Hans Bauman (he/him)
Volunteer Facilitator, He She Ze and We

Hans has been leading a support group for parents of transgender children for over two years. He has also been heavily involved in efforts to ensure Arlington Public Schools remain committed to the mental health and well-being of all students, transgender students in particular. He She Ze and We is a 501(c)3 Non-profit that offers weekly educational support meetings for parents, caregivers and adult family members of transgender and gender-diverse children of all ages. Learn more about He She Ze and We.

Leo
Leo Augustus Miller (he/ze/xe)
Board Member, Safe Space NOVA

Leo Augustus Miller, M.A. (He/Ze/Xe) is currently a doctoral student in clinical psychology at George Mason University and a member of the board of directors for Safe Space NOVA, a non-profit organization working to create affirming and empowering spaces for LGBTQIA+ youth. Ze works alongside diverse LGBTQIA+ individuals in research and clinical practice to build more affirming and empowering practices in substance use and eating disorder treatment interventions. His practices are rooted in scholar-activism, intersectionality, strengths-based perspectives, and community-centered methods to amplify strengths and voices of diverse LGBTQIA+ individuals and address needs within the community and in societal systems. Learn more about Safe Space NOVA.

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SC Nealy, LPC, NCC, CCMHC, MA, MA (they/them)
Owner, LGBT+ Counseling Collaborative

With over 15 years in the mental health field, SC Nealy is a queer, gender fluid psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, and group practice owner in Arlington, VA. SC operates a team of all gay and trans-identifying therapists with the focus of bringing clinicians with lived experiences to the queer community and their families. They also work locally and nationally to advocate for queer rights, accessible mental health care, and bringing more awareness to the needs of the queer community. Their upcoming book published by Bloomsbury Academics, Healing Sacred Wounds, focuses on giving folx a guide map for processing and exploring their experiences in religious or spiritual trauma. As a therapist, they specialize in religious trauma, female and genderfluid-identifying couples counseling, mixed orientation marriages, complex-PTSD, Borderline Personality Disorder, interpersonal process group therapy, and non-faith based premarital counseling. In their personal life, they are a parent to two children and write romance novels for fun. Learn more about LGBT+ Counseling Collaborative.

timothy
Timothy Q. Elliott, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, LCSW-C (they/he)
Clinical Director/Psychotherapist,
Timothy Q. Elliott, MSW LLC

Timothy Q. Elliott (they/he) is a clinical social worker licensed in Maryland, Virginia, and DC who is a recognized expert in trauma healing as well as gender and sexual identity development. He emphasizes a strengths-based, depathologizing approach to supporting clients’ journey to wellness. Timothy now owns and operates a private psychotherapy practice in Arlington, VA where he and his associates provide individual and family therapy, consultation/supervision, and clinical trainings for mental health providers. His clinical specialties include child, adolescent, and adult survivors of sexual/physical/emotional abuse and neglect; dissociative disorders; depression and anxiety; gender identity development; sexual identity development; vicarious traumatization, professional burnout, and compassion fatigue. Learn more about Timothy’s practice.

LGBTQ+ Mental Health Resources
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He She Ze and We

He She Ze and We (HSZ&W) supports transgender and nonbinary people by empowering their families, allies, and communities to create life-saving, inclusive environments.

He She Ze and We provides a monthly in person educational support meeting for adult family members of trans/nonbinary/gender-diverse youth. They also have “family connections” social gatherings for fellow gender-diverse youth and their families. For information on how to attend either of these, fill out this form.

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LGBT+ Counseling Collaborative

A dedicated team of queer and trans-identifying psychotherapists serving LGBTQ+ folx, their families, and cishet allies. They offer a wide variety of services and modes of therapy. Learn more about LGBT+ Counseling Collaborative.

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Psychology Today

Popular tool used to search for a therapist. You can filter by gender, in-person or online, specialties, insurance, race, sexuality, language, and more! Start a search.

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Queer Mental Health Initiative

A collaborative group of mental health professionals who want to create free spaces, provide mental health resources, and empower queer-focused programming in the DMV area. Check out their Eventbrite page for upcoming free events.

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Safe Space NOVA

Safe Space NOVA‘s mission is to provide safe, accepting, and supportive environments to combat challenges faced by LGBTQIA+ youth. To align with this mission, Safe Space NOVA provides programming such as social hangs (adult-facilitated group hangouts), You + Me = We (queer sex ed relationship program for teens and allied providers), and social activities (including our annual pride prom!).

Safe Space offers adult and youth volunteer opportunities with social activities and hangs (check out the volunteer interest form here), and visit their website to connect over e-mail and social media!

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Timothy Q. Elliott, MSW LLC

Timothy and his associates provide individual and family therapy, consultation/supervision, and clinical trainings for mental health providers. Visit their website.

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Trans Lifeline’s Resource Library

Community-provided resources on a variety of topics, including health and wellness. Visit the resource library.

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World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH)

WPATH publishes the Standards of Care and Ethical Guidelines, which articulate a professional consensus about the psychiatric, psychological, medical, and surgical management of gender dysphoria and help professionals understand the parameters within which they may offer assistance to those with these conditions.” If you’re looking for a clinician educated in standards of care for Trans folks, ask them about their familiarity with WPATH!

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